【提出立场 】
In some families, parents give their children everything they ask for and allow them complete freedom. Although this parenting style may appear loving and supportive, I believe it is not beneficial for children. It can lead to several negative consequences when they grow up.
【可能后果】
To begin with, when children always get what they want, they may fail to learn self-control and patience. In real life, not all desires can be satisfied immediately, and children need to understand limits from an early age. Without clear boundaries, they may develop a sense of entitlement and expect others to meet their demands. For example, such children may struggle to accept rules at school or cooperate with classmates, which can affect their academic and social development.
In addition, allowing children to do whatever they want can prevent them from developing a sense of responsibility. Discipline and guidance from parents help children understand the difference between right and wrong. If parents never correct bad behaviour, children may not learn to take responsibility for their actions. As a result, when these children grow up, they may find it difficult to follow workplace rules or deal with authority figures, leading to conflicts in their professional lives.
Furthermore, overindulgence can weaken children’s ability to cope with failure and frustration. Adults often face challenges, criticism, and setbacks, but children who have never experienced refusal may lack emotional resilience. When they encounter difficulties later in life, they may feel stressed, anxious, or easily give up. This can negatively affect their mental health and long-term success.
